First, you should determine which of your debts are secured debts and which are unsecured debts. A secured debt is tied to a specific piece of property. You lose the security, or property, if you do not make the payments. For example, your car payment is a secured debt. If you don’t make the payments, you lose your car. The car is the security, or the property tied to the debt. Another example of secured debt is your mortgage payment. If you don’t make your mortgage payments, you lose your home. You need to be sure to pay the secured debt if you need the security.

Some store credit cards like Best Buy and Sears cards are secured debt. You should look at your credit card agreement to see whether it says the credit card company can take back, or repossess, something if you do not make payments (look for words like “security interest” and “remedies”). However, unless you have bought major appliances with these cards (such as a refrigerator or air conditioner), it is very rare for the store to try to repossess your purchases, especially clothes, since the cost of repossession is greater than the amount they could get by reselling your property. Still, the creditors will report you to the credit bureaus and hurt your credit rating. You should stop using these credit cards if you cannot pay them.

Most Visa and MasterCard debt is considered unsecured debt. With unsecured debt, your creditors cannot take anything from you if you do not pay them. You should stop using these credit cards if you cannot pay them. If you cannot pay unsecured debt, don’t pay it. Many creditors do not follow through with their threats. Again, the creditors will report you to the credit bureaus and hurt your credit rating. An overdue account stays on your credit record for about 7 ½ years.

If they do sue you, you can easily represent yourself and explain why you cannot or should not pay. The credit card company may get a judgment against you, which is an order by the court to pay. But a judgment does not force you to pay the debt, and the companies cannot take your home, your household goods, your automobile, or put you in jail or send your children to foster care. You should not sacrifice your basic needs (food, housing, utilities, medicines, transportation, etc) attempting to pay a judgment.

You can send a letter to a third party debt collector (a debt collection agency or lawyer) to make it stop harassing you about your debts. You should tell them that you do not want them to contact you any more. It is a good idea to tell them why you can’t pay the bill right now and that if you are able to make some payments in the future, you will do so.

You should make a copy of the letter for your records. You should send a letter to each of your creditors by certified mail, return receipt requested. Make sure each letter states the correct account number for that creditor. You should take the letter to your local post office service counter to mail it to make sure you do it properly and to receive the postal service stamp on your receipt as proof of mailing. Keep your receipt with your copy of the letter and, when you receive the green postcard showing delivery of your letter, keep it with your copy of the letter as well.

Once the collector receives the letter, they are allowed by federal law to communicate to you only for the following reasons: 1) to make one last effort to collect or settle the account; 2) to notify you that they will stop calling and writing; 3) to notify you a lawsuit is being filed regarding the account. They will make it sound as scary as possible, but if any debt collector calls you on the telephone, please remember that you do not have to talk to them; you can simply hang up. If you talk to a debt collector and he or she becomes abusive or harassing, you should tape the call if you are able. After the debt collector gets the letter, he sends the account back to the creditor. It is possible that the creditor will send your account to a new debt collector and you will have to send them a letter, too. Sometimes it can take 5 or 6 letters to different debt collectors until the creditor gives up or sues you.

If you do not receive the title within a month, you can file a complaint with the Texas Department of Transportation. When you file the complaint, you must show you had proof of insurance at the time of sale and send that proof when you return the form. To get a complaint form, you can write: Texas Department of Transportation, Motor Vehicle Division, Enforcement Section - New Complaints, P.O. Box 2293, Austin, Texas 78768 or call: (512) 463-8588. You may also go to the following internet link to print a form: ftp://ftp.dot.state.tx.us/pub/txdot-info/mvd/dealerform.pdf.

To get your debts under control, you should carefully choose between your basic needs (like food, electricity and medication) and things you can live without (like satellite TV, cable TV, or a cellular telephone). You might want to get help in learning to manage your debts and to rebuild your credit. You can call Consumer Credit Counseling Service at 1-800-878-2227.

We strongly urge you to not take a home equity loan (a new loan on your home to pay off debts). If you are not able to pay that loan, you will lose your home. Creditors may urge you to take out such a loan and you should be very suspicious of any such suggestions.